I know it’s a hot-button topic. I know some parents in this space — people I respect and admire— have made a point of avoiding AI entirely, treating it as a line they won’t cross. I want to explain why I’ve made a different choice, and why
I was raised in the evangelical spanking era, and if you weren’t, here’s how it worked in my house: my parents never spanked in anger. That part they were proud of. It was calm, deliberate, almost liturgical — you did the thing, you were told why it was wrong,
You yelled today. Maybe you slammed a cabinet door a little too hard, or said something in a tone you’d never want your kid repeating back to you in the same manner. Or your kid said something and you heard your own voice echoed back at you. And now
Most of us learned to apologize the same way: an adult said “say you’re sorry,” we mumbled it while staring at our shoes, and everyone moved on. It got the words out. What it didn’t do was build empathy — it built a habit of performative remorse to make
Your toddler hits their sibling. Or you. Or a kid at the park who wouldn’t share the damn shovel. Your stomach drops — partly from the sting, partly from the flash of am I really raising this? — especially when you’ve hung the “peacemaker” sign over your parenting values. Take
Montessori classrooms have been quietly teaching peace education for over a century — not through lectures, but through prepared environments, hands-on materials, and adults who model behavior rather than direct it. You don’t need a classroom to borrow these ideas. Here are ten peacemaking activities you can bring home,
Ask most parents what they want for their kids and you’ll hear some version of the same list: happy, healthy, kind, resilient, successful. “Peacemaker” doesn’t usually make the list — not because we don’t want it, but because we rarely stop to name it for what it is.
Every parent has stood in the kitchen at 6pm, referee-whistle in hand, trying to talk two small humans down from starting World War III over a transgression involving a plastic dinosaur. In that moment, “teach my child to be a peacemaker” can feel less like a value and more